Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Freedom of speech vs "Free money"



Venus JB MTM gorgeous golden kua

MTM: 2000RM
To buy: 5000RM
To rent to customers: not possible until the mtm brides wears it next year
Financial freedom: Priceless
Freedom of speech: Priceless

I'm alittle bit troubled n feeling fustrated by limitations and things that is out of our control. Having a limited budget is one of our major problems, not enough money means we have to put up with difficult, very opinionate family that act like bosses, and we have to bear with their irrational nonsense, endless demands and hurting criticisms. The worst thing is to see the htb getting very affected by all this rubbish and not able to do or fight back becos we need their money, or do we? I really feel like not taking other pple $ and finding a way out for ourselves, for exm, applying for afew more credit cards and getting in debts before we even started our journey tgh.......

So enough of the heavy stuff, let me tell u our endeavours yesterday, we went for pre marriage counselling yesterday, topic was abt good communication, i dun think that is a prob for us now, ya, we can tell each other everything comfortably. Left two more sessions to go, yeah... can;t wait for the dealing with in-law topic... haha, i really need that wisdom..

After counselling, we went to check out the balloon shop!! Choosed our pink, sliver, dark blue and light blue balloons and streamers, actually now we have a prob, having free hanging helium balloons in the hotel is going to b a prob so we have to think of smt else, maybe a balloon arch or balloon pillars, but in doing that i might take the risk of the place looking too indian.






Next up, meeting with coordinators of the hotel and food tasting


I'll always remember this pic of the ballroom, while looking at the pretty sight, at the same time, i'm thinking, THIS IS NOT REALLY OUR WEDDING... ;( I can't do what i want, from the colours of the linen to every single food choice, to our gown and our pics, everything! WE CAN NEVER PLEASE YOU, AND I DUN CARE!
Food tasting feedback form. Quite happy with HI service, we were treated like royals.



Head and tail of fish with a lesson- Grandma says the head and tail of the fish is impt and we must do everything in completion not halfway, if we have a head we must have a tail.. haha.. how true.
Thanks for tuning in, see u soon, have a fabulous day!!